In some cases,

the rapist will observe his victim for a while,

sometimes preferring to lead her/him on,

gaining trust and learning her/his weaknesses.

 

Then, whether premeditated or brought on by an argument,

 the rapist attacks his date, or simply exerts slight force,

by physical overpowerment, threats, and/or insults.

 

It is important for everyone to identify

boundaries and personal comfort zones

before entering a dating relationship.

 

Be reminded that even if violence or threats are not used,

 sex against someone's will is ALWAYS RAPE!